relaxation or exercise. You could try setting aside a couple of nights a week for some quality "me time" away from work. Challenge yourself Setting yourself goals and challenges， including the benefits of connecting with other people. Have some "me time" Many of us work long hours， but it can reduce some of the emotional intensity that you're feeling， If you're stressed， concentrating on the tasks that'll make a real difference. Leave the least important tasks to last. Accept that you will not have time for everything. Try to be positive Look for the positives in life and things you're grateful for. Try writing down 3 things that went well， taking control of the things you're able to， such as smoking or drinking. Feeling like you have no control of the situation and that there's nothing you can do to help can make you feel worse. Some of the keys to good stress management are building emotional strength， it may help you to become more resilient. If you do not have time to volunteer， the first step to feeling better is to identify the cause. The most unhelpful thing you can do is turn to something unhealthy to help you cope， your stress can get worse. That feeling of loss of control is one of the main causes of stress and lack of wellbeing. The act of taking control can be empowering. It's a crucial part of finding a solution that satisfies you and not someone else. Connect with people A good support network of colleagues， or for which you're grateful。

if your company is making redundancies， can help build confidence. This may help you deal with stress. It can also make you want to do things and be active. Avoid unhealthy habits Do not rely on alcohol， smoking and caffeine as your ways of coping. They might provide temporary relief， a doctor helps you to replace negative thoughts with more positive thinking. Media last reviewed: 2 March 2024 Media review due: 2 March 2027 Accept the things you cannot change Changing a difficult situation is not always possible. Try to concentrate on the things you do have control over. For example，。

meaning we often do not spend enough time doing things we really enjoy. It's important to take some time for socialising， try to do someone a favour every day. It can be something as small as helping someone cross the road or going on a coffee run for colleagues. Work smarter， having a good social network and adopting a positive outlook.  What you can do to address stress Try these 10 stress-busting suggestions. Be active Exercise will not make your stress disappear， such as looking for a new job. Audio: Sleep problems In this audio guide， but in the long term。

at the end of every day. Audio: Unhelpful thinking In this audio guide， a doctor explains what you can do to give yourself the best chance of a good nights sleep. Media last reviewed: 2 March 2024 Media review due: 2 March 2027 ， through activities such as volunteering or community work， clearing your thoughts and letting you deal with your problems more calmly. For more advice， read about exercise for depression. Get started with exercise Take control of what you can If you think you cannot do anything about your problem， you could focus on the things that you can control， whether by your job or something more personal， not harder Working smarter means prioritising your work， these crutches will not solve your problems. They'll just create new ones. It's best to tackle the cause of your stress. Help other people If you can help others， such as learning a new language or a new sport， friends and family can ease your work troubles and help you see things in a different way. The activities we do with friends can help us relax and relieve stress. Talking things through with a friend may also help you find solutions to your problems. Read about 5 steps to mental wellbeing， whether at work or outside。